Of Breechcloths and Belonging

A Founder’s Journal in Motion

Entry I of “Between Stitches and Seasons”

While stickball is a rigorous and entertaining sport, it is still deeply rooted in community. Though you may see many southeastern tribes on the field, the game is open to those who can approach the game with humility and respect for the game and community. 

Over the past few weeks I have been working on a stickball apron for my husband. This project is something I have been thinking about for a long time. I wear my ishtaboli breechcloth as a banner. I usually wear the same apron to represent myself and my commitment to my community and the game. In the past, I have let him wear my apron on the field as his banner, but I feel that it’s time he have his own.

My husband is Filipino, but from the moment he met our community, he has worked to learn and respect our culture. He has taken great care to research and understand the meaning behind the game as well as earn the respect of our community and his teammates. 

So I’ve been working on a design that honors his heritage as well as his dedication to  Choctaw culture as my partner. When I began planning his apron, I wanted that respect to be clear. His apron reflects his heritage and the flag of the Philippines. The white stripe in the middle reflects the bright path which we all strive to be on and with which his morals align. The row of diamonds represents his connection to our community. And of course the Philippine sun with diamond rays reflects in the center. 

This project has centered me in my work and the purpose of my work. There’s something powerful about creating something with love and intention for someone else, especially when it’s tied to community, sport, and identity. I imagine this apron getting muddied in scrums and wild tackles. That tells the story of the wearer and their passion.  This apron is a banner of pride <3 

– Yasmine